PITFALLS of *ineffective* tutor-search: know 80/20RULE - By TucsonMathDoc
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00:0-1 | at some point in your child's life , they will | |
00:02 | need a mass twitter , some extra help which is | |
00:06 | so normal now , most parents I work with tells | |
00:10 | me that well I used to think finding someone who | |
00:13 | is good at math that will be good enough twitter | |
00:16 | for my child . Right . Not so You say | |
00:19 | finding a Twitter is easy , but finding the right | |
00:23 | one takes a little more work . Hi , I'm | |
00:25 | dr phoenix panda performance culture at George math . We | |
00:28 | use math to build confidence Today . I want to | |
00:31 | share with you my tips on how to find a | |
00:35 | good tutor and what the pitfalls for this process . | |
00:38 | So you can benefit and find the right one for | |
00:41 | your child . All right , let me introduce you | |
00:44 | my 8020 rule . What is that ? Okay ? | |
00:47 | So that 20% is really Finding someone who is good | |
00:52 | at math to write on that one , but the | |
00:54 | 80% is what I really want to focus on today | |
00:58 | . Um The 80% is really actually finding someone who | |
01:03 | can help your child learn how to learn now . | |
01:06 | That may be a new concept , maybe not . | |
01:08 | So what do I mean by that ? So when | |
01:10 | it comes to learning , especially like math , we | |
01:14 | all have our own unique styles for some kids is | |
01:19 | I learned through stories . They need to grab the | |
01:21 | stories to be engaged . Some kids need a big | |
01:24 | picture , so they want to see how this concept | |
01:27 | fits in . Why am I learning this particular one | |
01:30 | for other kids that they take comfort in repetition , | |
01:35 | That it gives them a sense of security . Still | |
01:38 | others , maybe they need to talk through it . | |
01:41 | They need to hear it first . Right ? So | |
01:43 | a good tutor really needs to tune into your child | |
01:47 | . It's not always easy thing , but with this | |
01:49 | extra effort putting in finding the right person for your | |
01:52 | child is so worth effort . All right , So | |
01:56 | what does it look like if you can't find this | |
01:59 | person ? Let me paint some pictures for you , | |
02:02 | what it looks like . Now , before we go | |
02:04 | there , let me cover the pitfalls . You see | |
02:06 | normally who you think is a good candidate for your | |
02:09 | child As a math tutor might not be someone like | |
02:12 | your child's Here's some entire retired engineers Or a math | |
02:19 | teacher maybe lived down the street from you . Now | |
02:22 | , those people know math , but that might not | |
02:25 | be a good candidate for your child . Here's why | |
02:28 | knowing math is only 20% . Remember What was the | |
02:33 | other 80% . What would look like ? What you're | |
02:35 | really looking for is actually someone who is good communicator | |
02:39 | . So three things , right ? Let me go | |
02:42 | through the first one , adaptive to child , which | |
02:45 | is really important , adaptive to child . Second one | |
02:48 | , the tutor who really want to identify with you | |
02:52 | child struggle because when a child is struggle , it's | |
02:55 | already a sore spot . It's a sensitive someone who | |
02:58 | is good at math . Thin struggle through it may | |
03:02 | not appreciate the kind of struggle your child is going | |
03:06 | through and what a waste the opportunity that is because | |
03:09 | a child can use that struggle . Actually turn the | |
03:12 | thing around and build confidence with the struggle . Right | |
03:17 | ? All right . Three things to suggest that I | |
03:20 | pass on to the clients I work with . Once | |
03:23 | you find this person , how do you make the | |
03:25 | most out of it ? three things . The first | |
03:28 | one is make sure you're sitting in a sessions . | |
03:32 | Don't just drop your child and say bye and then | |
03:34 | an hour later , pick them up when you want | |
03:36 | to sit in there to observe the interaction . Second | |
03:40 | thing , when you do sit in the session , | |
03:43 | listen carefully . Who is doing the most talking working | |
03:47 | ? Because whoever is doing the most talking working is | |
03:50 | doing the most work right ? If the tutor is | |
03:53 | doing it on your child is not learning because the | |
03:56 | tour is doing the work . But if your child | |
03:59 | is doing the most talking , then what you don't | |
04:01 | want to hear is what kind of question the quality | |
04:04 | of the question your child is asking . For example | |
04:07 | , I don't get it versus I see number three | |
04:11 | and four step , you're doing this number five and | |
04:14 | six . I'm little not quite sure . Can you | |
04:17 | explain that again ? That's a good one . That's | |
04:19 | what you want to hear for . And lastly make | |
04:23 | sure you tell the twitter upfront , be frank , | |
04:26 | be honest with me if it's not working , let | |
04:29 | me know as soon as possible . So you can | |
04:32 | actually take your child and your child's math struggle get | |
04:36 | it addressed elsewhere if needed . All right , so | |
04:40 | here's the three tips . There anything else I want | |
04:43 | to share with you ? Um This little opportunity don't | |
04:49 | waste it . Childhood expires . So a mass struggle | |
04:53 | is not an obstacle is actually an opportunity . If | |
04:57 | you use the right , you can actually turn around | |
05:00 | . So let me encourage you thinking think of this | |
05:05 | mass struggle and finding a tutor as an opportunity , | |
05:08 | not an obstacle . Alright , on that note , | |
05:12 | thank you for watching . Come back for more tips | |
05:15 | and insights and join our door to math community Until | |
05:19 | next time . Happy parenting . |
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